Firstly,or***consciosmindisfilledwiththoghts,feelings,andbeliefsthatwemaynotevenbeawareof.Thesecanrangefromchildhoodexperiencestosocietalconditioningtopersonalfearsanddesires.Whenweareattractedtosomeone,itisoftenbecasetheypossessqalitiesthatweadmireorseeasdesirable.However,theseqalitiesc***sobeareflectionofthepositiveaspectsoforselvesthatwemaynotfllyacknowledgeorappreciate.
Secondly,theconceptof"likeattractslike"appliestoor***consciosaswell.Weareoftendrawntopeoplewhosharesimilarvales,beliefs,orinterestswiths.Thiscanmeanthatweare***conscioslyseekingvalidationoracceptancefortheaspectsoforselvesthatweholddear.Frthermore,ifwetakeacloserlookatorrelationships,wemayfindthatorpartnerorlovedonemaypossessqalitiesthatwelackorwanttoimproveon.Thiscreatesasenseofcomplementarybalanceandgrowthwithintherelationship.
Thirdly,lovingoneself***conscioslyc***someanthatwearemoreforgivingandnderstandingtowardsorselvesandothers.Byrecognizingthatorchoicesandactionsmaybedrivenbybeliefsorexperienceswearenotconscioslyawareof,wecanapproachconflictsandmisnderstandingswithcompassionandempathy.
However,itisimportanttonotethatlovingoneself***conscioslydoesnotmeanthatwesholdneglectorconsciosself-careandself-improvement.Itiscrcialtocltivateahealthyself-imageandself-esteemthroghpracticesschasmindflness,jornaling,andtherapy.
Inconclsion,"yolovethepersonthatisyor***consciosself"canbeinterpretedasaremindertoembraceandappreciateallaspectsoforselves,whethertheyareconsciosornot.Byacknowledgingor***conscio***eliefsanddesires,wecandevelopdeeperrelationships,greaterself-awareness,andmorecompassiontowardsorselvesandothers.
